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Yang's death reverberated throughout the Asian massage worker community not only because it was heartbreaking, but also because after Song died, police decided to respond by targeting 40th Road, a block-long dead-end with about 10 parlors among crab restaurants and dumpling vendors.
Police shut down several parlors and arrested a bunch of sex workers. We just have put the workers further into the shadows, or more into more violent and dangerous situations. After Amy got off work, she took a translator and me around the corner from where Song died and police sought to snuff out prostitution.
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Some massage parlor laborers do take on debt to come to the U. Most pay a debt to a "snakehead" or independent broker that is not tied to a specific place of work. Some occasionally do pay a debt to an individual parlor, and those are the situations that are coercive.
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